declaration of intent | i do

The declaration of intent is a special moment led by the celebrant, where the couple is gently asked if they choose to commit to each other. Though it can feel a little nerve-wracking and serious, it’s a heartfelt question answered with “I do” or “I will.” It’s a beautiful, simple way to say yes to love, trust, and a lifetime together.

 

DOI i

Do you, <Bride/Groom’s name>, take this <woman/man> to be your lawfully wedded <wife/husband>?
Will you love, respect, and honour <her/him>, being faithful to <her/him> for as long as you both shall live?

 

DOI ii

Will you, <Bride/Groom’s name>, take <Bride/Groom’s name> to be your lifelong spouse?
Will you make the daily effort to relate to <her/him> and listen to <her/him>?
Will you be gracious and generous in your giving of yourself?
Will you work for what is best for <her/him> for the rest of your life?

 

DOI iii

Do you, <Bride/Groom’s name>, promise to hold <her/him> close through all of life’s moments and challenges,
to stand by <her/him> with patience and strength, and to nurture this love with kindness and understanding every single day?
Will you celebrate <her/him> in times of happiness and comfort <her/him> in times of sorrow,
committing your heart and soul to a lifetime of shared dreams and unwavering support?

 

DOI iv

Will you, <Bride/Groom’s name>, choose <her/him> as your partner, your confidant, and your greatest love,
promising to cherish and protect <her/him> through all that life may bring?
Will you build a life together filled with warmth, laughter, and steadfast devotion,
always seeking to understand and uplift one another,
and committing to grow side by side in love and kindness for all your days?